Respect the child

Respect the child.

No matter how cranky she gets, respect the child.

If she had only 5 spoons of rice for dinner, still, respect the child. She could have chosen not to have even 5 spoons and become more cranky and in turn disturb the mother. Always remember to respect the child.

When one is aware that the child is a physical form of divine soul that has taken life with some goals in mind, one is bound to respect the child.

When there is respect, you are inclined towards hearing your child. Every child wants to be heard. Just because child cannot communicate in the same way adults do, do not underestimate her ability to perceive things, do not yell at the child. Every thing you do to her, every single aspect of your behaviour is well registered in your child's brain and will some time be shown in her personality development.

First, assure her that you are always there to hear her needs. Next, get down to her level of seeing things, her level of talking and her level of understanding. Change the tone of your voice accordingly. Talk slowly, repeat telling the same in various voice modulations until your intent is conveyed to the child. She is sure to understand what you wanted to convey.

Here in this post I list further posts on parenting based on my experience. I inculcate the no-yelling no-spanking blissful and respectful parenting and encourage others to try experimenting in their journey of parenthood. It is sure to bear fruitful results in shaping of your child's personality.

Remember, I am not a professional early childhood expert. But, I love perceiving things in the way my child does and I think this is the reason behind my blissful parenting experience. I become a child when with my child. I talk in various rhythmic tones that catch the attention of my child. I respect her. I hear her out. I satisfy her needs be it water, food, games, play in an organised manner.

She does throw tantrums but I believe there's always a positively pleasant way to deal with everything in life. You can read more on specific topics on parenting in the list below:

(This post will regularly be updated and always pinned to the top of this page)

1. Live the Moment
2. Dealing with a stressed out toddler
3. Best or worst moment- Realise your love
4. A Child's Miracle
5. Just Let Them Be
6. The BIG Bank of Child's Brain
7. Children and their teeny happiness
8. Interacting with a child
9. Play with a child
10. Feeding the child
11. Kids and their power of learning
12. Human values in daily life
13. Family - the way you see it
14. How to handle toddler's tantrums?
15. Shaping of a child's persona
16. Teaching your child how to eat
17. The art of parenting
18. Bonding with your child
19. Being Responsible vs Controlling
20. Are you teaching or controlling your child?
21. Children and mess - Is it really a mess?
22. Follow your child's lead
23. Dealing with sick child - All you need is love
24. Conscious Parenting
25. Parent vs Child - Conflicting needs
26. Parent vs Child - Sleep Time
27. Play and Mess around - What is your role?
28. Time - kids vs adults
29. Another busy day when child needs parent's warmth
30. Toddler behaviour - screech and scream
31. Conveying your message to toddler
32. How does parent's reaction matter?
33. Explaining our intention to a toddler
34. Try to understand your child's intention
35. Toddler: Feelings and Emotions
36. Handling Toddler's Momentary Mood
37. Learning while messing around
38. 2 year old - changing views
39. You should not because...
40. Give them time..
41. Understanding your child's reaction
42. Blissful parenting
43. Explain to your child first
44. Handling hyperactive toddler
45. Providing opportunities or rushing things?
46. Love multiplied
47. Show some love
48. Gentle Parenting Tips
49. Physical needs and emotional well-being
50. How are you doing, as a parent?
51. A Child's Letter
52. What could you teach a child?
53. Teaching your child how to write
54. One thing you could do when your child who is upset, upsets you
55. How do you connect with a child?
56. Let me explore
57. Are you connected to your child?
58. Nurturing Emotions in Child
59. Intuition and Parenting
60. Toddler's tasks
61. Is there any learning?
62. What are instructions for?
63. Hold back, don't push yourself to push your child.
64. Schooling or Unschooling?
65. Overcoming or Living in Fear?
66. Society says, Be tough with your child!
67. What is too-much love?
68. Good, Bad and the Ugly
69. Is improvement self-directed?